Rj's security pillow cover

I am sure we each had something similar when we were kids- a security something. Mine was a specific pillow and it was more about a specific corner of the pillow that was my security item. I was forced to get rid of it when I was about 10 or so because we were migrating to US and was told I would get a better one-I am still in search.

Now back to Rj. Rj has always had a special place for this one particular pillow cover. Its flowery and made of flannel. It was part of a whole bed sheet set that came with two pillow covers, top and bottom sheet from the internet. Which basically means I can't find it again. When he started going to daycare at the tender age of 17 months he would drag that cover all over the place. He would not sleep anywhere without it. It was so bad that I sacrificed the top sheet to make more smaller versions of the pillow cover for traveling purposes. He too was using the one corner of the pillow to aid in sleeping. He is now 4 years old and one morning decided he was done with the pillow cover & corner. One morning he gave the pillow to me and Ryan and said " I don't need the flower pillow anymore." Ryan and I stood there dumbfounded. We decided to hide it in Celeste's closet in case Rj decides to change his mind. Up to now he has not asked for it since. He is a big boy after all. 

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♥ What are your middle names?
Mine: Carr
His: Allen

♥ How long have you been together?
10 years

♥ How long did you know each other before you started dating?
3 months?

♥ Who asked who out?
I don't remember

♥Who said I love you first?
I think he did

♥ How old are each of you?
Me: 27
Him: 27

♥ Do you have any children together?
2 kids: Rj & Celeste

♥ What about pets?
Daisy (RIP) & Mightydog (RIP)

♥ Did you go to the same schools?
Apparently we did but didn't know it. While I was taking nursing classes in the daytime he was taking environmental classes at night upstairs.

♥ Are you from the same hometown?
Nah

♥ Who is the smartest?
He is

♥ Who is the most sensitive?
I think I am but there are times when I think he is.

♥ Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Before the kids almost everywhere

♥ Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Cancun, Mexico for our honeymoon

♥ Who has the craziest ex?
Probably me-"stalker" guy ew!

♥ Who has the worst temper?
For sure me

♥ Who does the cooking?
This is an easy one to answer: NOT ME!

♥Who is the most social?
Another easy one: For sure HE is. He even talks to the people we sit next to in the movie theatres.

♥ Who is the neat-freak?
None

♥ Who is the most stubborn?
Me for sure

♥ Who wakes up earlier?
Me again

♥ Where was your first date?
I think it was at Mami King but then his cousin was there so does that count? If not it would be at the movies to watch " You got mail."

♥Who has the bigger family?
I think it al evens out

♥Do you get flowers often?
Nah-only on important occasions

♥ Who do you spend the holidays with?
We are married so each others family

♥ Who is more jealous?
That would be Me

♥ Who sings better?
Neither

♥Who does/did the laundry?
Both of us

♥ Who’s better with the computer?
For sure he is

♥ Who drives when you are together?
Ryan does - I stay in the back with the kids

♥ Who picks where you go to dinner?
I do since I am usually the one thats picky

♥ Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
I think he does

♥ Who named your pet?
Daisy I did, Mightydog he did

♥ Who wears the pants in the relationship?
He does

♥ Who has more tattoos?
Let me check I will get back to you.

♥ Who eats more sweets?
I think he does I just have a weakness for soda

♥ Who cries more?
Me

♥ Are you still together?
As far as I know Yes :)